tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7449255540951766363.post8371595853231154782..comments2023-10-25T04:56:54.432-04:00Comments on Elizabeth Downie: Pre-DatingElizabeth Downiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14985143085882983821noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7449255540951766363.post-48836598537188047152012-12-20T17:24:00.516-05:002012-12-20T17:24:00.516-05:00I'm interested in learning more about the glob...I'm interested in learning more about the global BBQ Liz Hugheshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05753886935648800089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7449255540951766363.post-42956972522315572572010-09-02T15:12:37.164-04:002010-09-02T15:12:37.164-04:00I died laughing... Stalkery...
and not thinking ab...I died laughing... Stalkery...<br />and not thinking about if his reading your blog makes him want to date you more or less.<br /><br />You have good taste in friends... I mean you ARE good friends w/ me after all. So true we'd ask the friend what they're like. But for the most part, if you've chosen your friends wisely, then their friends are likely to be par on the same course.E McLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17533460087188901432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7449255540951766363.post-4255663521599889912010-09-01T22:20:50.078-04:002010-09-01T22:20:50.078-04:00Pre-Dating...I'm not sure how I feel about tha...Pre-Dating...I'm not sure how I feel about that one. But isn't that why we have good gossip (oxymoron there!)? I mean, it's usually a friend who sets you up on the date, so you obviously already know tid bits about the guy/girl you will be going out with, right? Besides, people do enough of "facebook stalking" as it is - I don't think we need anymore of that in this lifetime. That article kind of creeps me out...as much as the snake!~ Malissa ~https://www.blogger.com/profile/12819271732753044654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7449255540951766363.post-38916091492578658342010-09-01T00:53:03.067-04:002010-09-01T00:53:03.067-04:00I don't know. I have alot of artwork, writing...I don't know. I have alot of artwork, writing and recordings out there online. It does seem just a little odd to me when someone I just met or about to go on a date with talks to me about something I wrote on my blog or a poem I recorded. Anyone can look at it, but it's only a little odd when I know they looked at it just because of some interest in me.<br /><br />The question can go the other way. How do you feel when someone predates you?Melanie Carbinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10459865846323805295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7449255540951766363.post-74363246275857414752010-08-31T18:29:41.541-04:002010-08-31T18:29:41.541-04:00I think irlts a good idea to know something about ...I think irlts a good idea to know something about the guy going into it, especially if your friends and family don't know him either. A little online research is OK, but hiring a P.I. Might be a bit much. Then you really have to be careful not to slip up and say something like, "Now was that before or after your uncle was thrown in jail?" or "Wow, I thought your hair plugs would look much less believeable. Those black and white photos didn't do them justice."Katherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00421409632244031191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7449255540951766363.post-92138285738992434062010-08-31T13:39:12.755-04:002010-08-31T13:39:12.755-04:00I think it's okay to do a little research [the...I think it's okay to do a little research [the opposite ideology idea rings true - why waste your time?] Before the internet, we just asked our friends what the guy was like. Is that pre-dating? And usually it was our friends setting us up so we knew it wasn't the Craig's list killer or his roommate.violet50https://www.blogger.com/profile/10517566712232662393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7449255540951766363.post-41603701128128498512010-08-31T13:32:21.317-04:002010-08-31T13:32:21.317-04:00Yeah, I've "predated," I guess. I...Yeah, I've "predated," I guess. I've read the dudes' Facebook info, looked at pictures, even Googled their name. I don't think it's creepy or stalkerish at all because all of that information is pubic domain. <br /><br />I also think predating is wise. Let's say that prior to going on the blind date, you read inflammatory/racist/chauvinistic rants on the guy's blog or something. Instead of wasting your time sitting through an awkward dinner with someone who's ideology so starkly clashes with yours, you could cancel the date and move on to the next guy on your list!<br /><br />I don't see how reading a dude's Facebook, blog, or resume online fall into the "weird" category at all. Now, following him around to observe his daily rituals, hacking into his email account, or reading his text msgs...that's crossing the line.isspenguinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00104615478633630181noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7449255540951766363.post-66643775371906456422010-08-31T09:58:23.677-04:002010-08-31T09:58:23.677-04:00I think it's smart.... and creepy. If I went o...I think it's smart.... and creepy. If I went on blind dates, I'd totally do it.Jules AFhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05380372212489758689noreply@blogger.com